Spring Is Coming!

Today’s Tip: Distance isn’t everything. Lessons in patience can be good for both horse and rider.

Want to hear something funny? The week when I actually started spending time with the horses was the week I totally failed at blog life! I wish I could say it was because I’ve been riding miles and miles, but it’s just been general craziness.

I DID however, have some great pony-time. Last Sunday – the 13th, so over a week ago – was the day spring hit. It was 55* when I left where I was visiting for the weekend. It was glorious. The entire 3 hour drive home I was just itching to get outside. I finally got home, changed into Muck boots and barn clothes and got my ride on! Pretty and I went for a quick jaunt down the road. We only got about 1/4 a mile down the road. The road, though melting, was a mix of mush and slick. We also headed out with a bit of an attitude on our hands. It was great exercise for both of us in patience.

Our plan for the day, since it wasn’t destined to be a ride for distance, the plan was to work on calmly walking away from the barn and calmly walking back. We went until we were nearly to the safe part of the road (before we reached a corner that was snowpacked and icy) and then a little farther until we were walking calmly and without any apparent indication of spinning around to head home. Then we’d stop, wait, turn, stop, wait, and proceed forward. As soon as we’d start getting antsy, we’d turn around and try it all over again. We started with counting to 5 at our “waits” and then moved up to 10 or more if I felt she was standing but not really patient. Every time she’d start to paw, look over her shoulder, dance, or do anything else that suggested impatience, we’d start all over again. It was tedious, but kind of calming because we could just stand and enjoy the sunshine.

And then there was the mailbox. I wasn’t sure if my husband had gotten the mail the day before, so I thought, “Why not check it?” Isn’t that why they put mailboxes in trail classes? We walked right up near it, but heaven forbid we actually get withing reach of it. Granted, there are low hanging branches that her ears were kind of tangled in, but she didn’t seem to care. She also wasn’t afraid of the mailbox. She somehow just didn’t get that the leg pressure meant move closer so she did the opposite and/or just moved wherever she could to express her annoyance. At one point I wondered, “Do you get the appropriate points in the trail class if the horse is the one who opens and closes the mailbox?” Not 2 seconds later, she opened it! It was an accident of course, but a humorous tension breaker nonetheless. The fight was far from over. It took 10-15 minutes to get the stupid thing shut! After much patience, little requests, reminders (when away from the mailbox) of what leg pressure meant, and a lot of sitting and thinking, we finally got it shut and called it a night.

Other spring activities have included attempting to remind the fjords that sometimes they have a job to do and starting to tackle the mounds of manure that built up over the winter. And then yesterday came. We had our (hopefully only) spring blizzard yesterday and today, so we’re back to deep winter again for another week or so.

The hope, though, is that we have had a taste of spring. We have been reminded that it does, in fact, arrive. It will be here soon!

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